This document is provided in English. The English text is the legally binding version.
Last updated: 15 August 2026 · Version 2
CIPHER is the online dating and discovery service operated by AITailor OÜ, a company established in Estonia, at cipherdate.me (“AITailor OÜ”, “CIPHER”, “the site”, “we”). We set these terms and the rules for using the service, and by using the site you accept them. You can reach us, including for questions about these terms or about content decisions, at contact@cipherdate.me. This is also our single point of contact for members and authorities under Regulation (EU) 2022/2065 (the Digital Services Act); you can communicate with us in English or Estonian.
CIPHER is an online dating and discovery service for adults. We suggest people to you based on compatibility, and we host the spaces where you interact: private one-to-one chats, a community feed, a personals board and live rooms. You appear to others under a chosen handle, not your legal name, and your photos stay hidden from a new match, opening step by step as your mutual conversation builds trust (the reveal thresholds are part of how the service works). Some features are only available with a paid Pro membership (section 5).
CIPHER hosts content created by its members. We do not pre-approve members and we cannot guarantee anyone’s identity, intentions or behaviour. Meet new people carefully, in public places first, and never send money to someone you met here.
You must be at least 18 years old to use CIPHER. This is an adult service and parts of it contain sexually explicit material. When you register you must confirm your age and accept these terms; we refuse registration without both. If we learn that an account belongs to a minor, we delete it. Misstating your age is a material breach of these terms.
Pro is a paid membership that unlocks additional features, such as live rooms, matched-member feeds, seeing who liked you and higher matching limits. On the personals board every member can publish an advert; a free member’s advert runs for a limited period and a waiting interval applies between posts, while a Pro advert does not expire, is listed first and has no waiting interval. Viewing explicit-rated media without blurring also requires Pro and is off by default: each member switches it on separately for each of their matches, it applies only inside that conversation and that match’s personal feed, and it never applies in the public areas of the service. The exact features, prices (including VAT) and the length of the period are shown on the membership page before you buy.
Every purchase is a single, one-off payment. Membership runs for the period you bought — currently one month or two weeks — and then simply ends. Nothing renews automatically, no standing order or mandate is created, and you are never charged again unless you choose to buy again. There is therefore nothing to cancel: if you do nothing, the membership lapses on the date shown on your membership page. We send a reminder before that date.
If you buy again while your membership is still running, the new period is added on top of the time you have left — renewing early never costs you days. Payment is handled by our payment provider (LHV Pank’s payment gateway) using bank links or cards; we never see or store your bank credentials or card number. Payments made through a bank link are confirmed by your bank, which can take a short time: your membership activates as soon as that confirmation arrives.
If you are a consumer in the EU/EEA, you may withdraw from a purchase within 14 days without giving a reason by emailing contact@cipherdate.me with an unambiguous statement (your account email and the purchase concerned). Before each purchase we ask you to confirm that you want the service to start immediately and that you understand you then lose this right of withdrawal; if you do not confirm it, we cannot take the payment.
If you withdraw despite that confirmation, we refund the price minus a proportional amount for the days already provided. Purchased credits (“hearts”, section 7) that you have already spent count as service already provided; unspent hearts from the purchase are refunded in full.
Hearts are virtual credits usable only inside CIPHER. They have no monetary value, cannot be transferred or paid out, and expire with your account. We may also grant hearts free of charge (for example as goodwill); granted hearts are never refundable.
You must not use CIPHER to create, share, request or link to:
You also must not:
Consensual adult content between adults is allowed where the feature permits it; explicit material is only shown to members who are eligible to see it, is always blurred in the public areas of the service, and is shown unblurred only to a member who has chosen that for the specific match (section 5).
You keep ownership of everything you post. You grant us the non-exclusive, worldwide licence needed to operate the service: to store, process, adapt for display (for example blurred or resized previews) and show your content to the members it is intended for, until you delete it or your account. You warrant that you have the rights to what you post and that every person depicted is an adult who consented to the material being shared here. We do not sell your content and we do not use it to train AI models.
To keep the service lawful and safe we use automated tools together with human review (Article 14(1) DSA disclosure):
If we remove your content or restrict your account, you can contest the decision by writing to contact@cipherdate.me with the details; a human will review it. Nothing in this section limits your right to complain to a court or authority.
You can end this agreement at any time by deleting your account. We can suspend or terminate your account if you materially breach these terms — in particular section 8 — or where the law requires it. Conduct that threatens, harasses, intimidates, demeans, degrades or abuses another member is a serious breach: we may suspend the account or permanently ban you immediately and without prior notice. For other severe cases (illegal content, endangering others, fraud) we may also act immediately; otherwise we will tell you the reason.
A suspension or ban imposed because you broke these terms does not entitle you to any refund: any remaining paid membership period and any unspent hearts are forfeited. We refund the unused part of a paid period only where we end your membership without you being at fault — for example if we discontinue the service.
We keep improving CIPHER and may change or discontinue features. We may amend these terms for good reason (legal changes, new features, abuse prevention). Amended terms get a new version number and you will be asked to review and accept them before continuing to use the service; if you do not accept, you can delete your account. Matching results are inherently not guaranteed — we promise the service, not a particular person.
We are liable without limit for intent and gross negligence, for injury to life, body or health, and under any mandatory statutory liability. For ordinary negligence we are liable only for breach of essential contractual duties and only up to the damage typical and foreseeable for a service like this. We are not liable for the conduct of members, online or offline. Nothing in these terms limits rights that consumer law gives you, including the conformity remedies of Directive (EU) 2019/770.
These terms are governed by Estonian law. If you are a consumer, you also keep the protection of the mandatory rules of the country where you live, and you may sue and be sued in the courts of that country. You can also raise a dispute with the consumer dispute resolution body competent for you (in Estonia: the Consumer Disputes Committee at the Consumer Protection and Technical Regulatory Authority, ttja.ee).
AITailor OÜ (Estonia) · CIPHER · cipherdate.me · contact@cipherdate.me. We answer in English or Estonian.